Seeing, Believing, Doing!
How I went from living a re-active life, to helping others step into who they really are and build a life they love.
Before leaving my corporate job and building a six figure business, running training programme’s and writing a book, things were different.
Back then, living my life was like trying to drive the car with the brakes on.
Full of fear and crippled with self-doubt.
Unable to speak up, afraid to be fully seen and overly concerned with what people thought of me.
Frustrated at being unable to unleash the version of myself I knew I was inside.
Knowing I was just reacting to life but had no idea how to be any other way in the world.
Then one day I realised, if I didn’t get a handle on what was happening I would forever live behind a mask and settle for a version of my life I didn’t actively choose. And so, I started making moves.
To be perfectly honest, it wasn’t easy……
I became obsessed with personal development!
When I began to understand that the biggest things that were holding me back from living my best life was the mental barriers I had put in place! This revelation both thrilled and terrified me, equally.
While growing as a person meant I could actually step into the version of myself I knew I really was and shape my life into the life I loved, it also meant people would have to see who I really was and I would have to start making some pro-active moves in order to start building ‘that life’.
What would people think of me?
What if I failed or it didn’t work out?
What if I made a wrong move and I ended up destitute with no job, no money and no home?
Extreme, but that is how extreme it felt at the thought of being seen and ‘making moves’.
But I was relentless in my pursuit and soon discovered something…..
Momentum breeds momentum!
I discovered that as I started to grow personally, it was like a rolling stone that could not be stopped. My new world naturally built around me, pouring into all the areas of my life!
I doubled down on four key pillars which became the four cornerstones of my growth:
- I became willing to believe massive change IS possible. Fear is just a feeling and freedom comes from the doing.
- I learned how to create a new resilient mindset so that I could start making moves towards building the life I wanted.
- I adopted key habits in my life that helped me to show up and nail the small things, so that I could rock up and smash the big things.
- I understood that if I wanted to live my life differently, I would have to start doing things differently.
And so I did….…
When the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of change, it’s time to make some moves.
I have gone from being someone who was crippled with self-doubt to learning how to walk with the fear by my side. I believe it never fully leaves but I can now do the things, make the moves and it has brought me to where I am now. It’s not about being the perfect person. It’s about becoming the true version of yourself so you can live a life you truly love.
Want to know how I did it?
Little changes every day.
“Nothing makes me happier than to see others succeed, in whatever success looks like to them and if I can be a part of that, my heart is smiling!”
A Little About Me.
Obsessed with personal growth and DMC’s.
Built a six figure business.
Author of 1# best seller – The Man Who Moved the Nation.
Favourite place to be is Los Angeles
Cat Mom to Ben & Gerry.
Addicted to sea swimming!
Very average guitar player but love to get it out for a singsong.